Tear Soup (Spanish) If you are going to buy only one book on grief, this is the one to get. It will validate your grief experience, and you can share it with your children. You can leave it on the coffee table so others will pick it up, read it, and then better appreciate your grieving time. The tips section at the back of the book is rich with wisdom and concrete recommendations. Better than a casserole * Affirms the bereaved * Educates the unbereaved * A building-block for children. WINNER of the 2001 Theologos Book Award, presented by the Association of Theological Booksellers.